Raising children isn't easy and there is not one specific or "right" way to raising children.  Every parent is unique and has different standards and morals for raising kids.  The Bible has given us much wisdom and we can use those tools to help us raise them in the Godly way.  We have to admit that there are challenges being a parent and with each age there a is a new challenge.  The reality is, as soon as you think you have it figured out, your child goes through another stage that brings about a new challenge.  But it's important to know, that it's okay!  It's a challenge most every parent goes through.  It's important as a parent to understand and remember that there are changes in the body that your child goes through which can bring about changes in mood and personality in children.  It is important for parents to be educated and be prepared for the change. Every child is born with a different personality and calling on their life.  As a parent we are entrusted to cultivate the calling on their life by understanding and guiding your children so they can reach their full potential by recognizing and understanding the needs that they may have.  Even if it means that you are understanding the changes in their bodies and mood and keeping an open communication and raising them with the love, grace , and morals of Christ.